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Try meeting up with this guy WITH your mutual friend. Plan a double date to the movies or a hang out at a local public place. After you see him in person you should have an idea if you want it to work or not with him, if you do then try pursuing another date/hangout maybe just the two of you. Remember be safe, and if you don’t know him in person always take a friend along the first few time (: There is no reason why it shouldn’t work.
Tip # 1 : Believe in your self, self confidence is sexy, and YES you can be confident even if your shy.
STOP thinking I’m to tall, I’m too short, I’m to fat, I’m not curvy enough, I’m too dumb, I’m too ugly, he’ll never like me, whats wrong with me STOP THESE THOUGHTS, right now! Ladies I know one of these thoughts or something around those lines have crossed your mind before, they’ve crossed all our minds before but STOP it, Get those thoughts out of here! We don’t all like the same one boy correct? We all like different types of boys, and just how that works boys like different types of girls. So Stop putting yourself down with these horrible thoughts. If you want boys to think damn she so sexy, first you got to think damn I’m so sexy. This thinking I have no chance needs to end now, because everyone has an equal chance. Attraction to another person is based on more than one thing; yes visual is a part of the formula, but even the prettiest of girls can not get the guys they want because there more than just a pretty face in what a boy sees. A part of this formula is CONFIDENCE, sometimes boy don’t know you like them because we never come across as we do. If you like a boy flirt a little and make it known that you like him, but with out being that creepy stalker girl.
How to do this: Example: After talking a bit just causally tell him that you think hes attractive, if he give the compliment back and keeps the conversation going or seems shocked that you think hes good looking. Mostly likely hes into you or he thinks your way to beautiful to even consider him. If your ‘guy’ doesn’t seem so into the idea of you finding him attractive or seems to cut the conversation short than he wasn’t even that sexy in the first place, so don’t waste time, its easier to not get hurt if you were never that serious about him when you realize hes not the on for me, this helps you cut break on heart break and wasting your time.
LIFE EXAMPLE: Confidence is key let it know that you like him, recently i finally had the courage to tell a boy i was crushing on all last year in class that i think hes cute, he seemed shocked why i would think that. i told him cause i thought he was good looking, he never had any idea i liked him last year and thought i was to pretty for him in reality. In my mind i thought wow he must not like me and ended up just sitting across in class hoping maybe one day hell ask me out, but how could that happen if the boy doesn’t know!! so LADIES SPEAK UP and be the CONFIDENT SEXY WOMEN that YOU are, you never know what could come from it (:
Are you tired of not being able to get the guy you want? Feeling like he doesn’t know you exist. Being put second best after the “perfect” girl or being put into the “friend zone” Yes ladies we have all been there. Relationships; trial and error, continuing to make mistake after mistake, wishing you can avoid disasters. Well don’t live in doubt on what you should of done, be ahead of the game one step. Here you can find a few tips on how to get your man! With advice on what boys are really attracted to, how to catch his eye, getting him to want you, and much more(: Interested in knowing the secrets to a mans heart, than click the little FOLLOW button in the top right corner!
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